When we can see this all from the higher perspective, and see the kindred souls coming in and out of our life for such reasons of growth & ultimate freedom our soul is yearning for through the intimacy & love we share. We can understand, not go into story, but just ALLOW life to unfold. Growth and self development is best done when LIVING, without a story. Life and existence is always going to bring you exactly what you need for your highest growth potential. So patience and trust in this higher force, is needed.
Like anything, when you are looking for it, it is bound to never show up. Because behind that looking for is a desperation, a need, a feeling of lack; and the universe works in such ways, that it will not give until you are free from those qualities of need and lack. Rather gift you when you least expect.
I am constantly teaching women about their menstrual cycles; in particular how to connect with their sacred "moon time" & their beautiful bodies. That I feel it is necessary to share with the gentlemen, some wisdom, tips & insights into how to best support the women around them during this most beautiful time of the month.
When we do not resolve and come to a sense of completion energetically with ex partners, we unconsciously find ourselves, repeating the same old patterns, and projecting all that was unresolved from that past partner onto our new partners. It is like we just bring all this old garbage, again and again, and wonder why we keep attracting the same scenarios over and over. Not getting the love we want and so deserve.
One of the greatest core wounds I see in others, and always face & thus tends to be one of the biggest roadblock on my opening to love is, mistrust, and betrayal. Given the above experiences & situations, how the fuck are we meant to trust a man? No wonder so many of us shut down sexually, the amount of trauma we associate with the untrustworthy masculine, leaves us pretty weary, on physical, emotional, and sub conscious levels.
Dancing in the 'Tantra' scene for the past 8 years, has shown me all different ways of relating. You see for me, my parents relationship was no basis to go by, if I ever wanted to be in a healthy love filled relationship. So I set out on an endeavor to seek out what a healthy relationship looked, and felt like, and have, like most of us fumbled along the way.